LOG KYA KAHENGE

                                            LOG KYA KAHENGE 

I just have a question for you, that how many times did you think that what others think or say about your dress, make up or picture? I think most of our decisions and choices rotate around just these three words – ‘Log Kya Kahenge’.  Don’t wear this, log Kya kahenge, don’t put kajal, log Kya kahenge, don’t put that red lipstick, you know – log kya kahnege. Why do we really need to think about all this? I think that these three words has killed more dreams than anything in the world.

This world where everyone tries to be modern, more accepting and tolerant has also started becoming more judgemental. Maximum decisions are literally made with the thought “Log Kya Kahenge” instead of the thought that we are the ones who will have to live with that choice and decision.

Do everything you want because life is too short to think about Log Kya kahenge. I know we live in a society where we have to follow the rules, norms and that social values. But how can our fashion harm all these things. When there can be variety of food, of restaurants, of places, even of friends, then why can’t of clothes. Wear that dress, apply that dark lipstick or not, wear suit or jeans, wear short skirts or long skirts, wear heels or flats, apply kajal or liner. Just do everything you want. An oops is always better than what if.

So, basically its all about you, not about anybody else. Don’t let people push you into their choices and decisions you don’t wanna make.

If ever by chance a similar situation strikes you, just do one thing. Take a deep breath, sit back and just memorize the lines of this beautiful song “Kuch toh log to Kahenge, logon ka kaam hai kehna. Chodon bekaar ki baatein, kahin beet na jaye raina`” by the all-time legend Kishore Kumar.